Beyond The Swinging Watch - Hypnosis and Psychology in Everyday Life

In my practice as a Hypnotherapist, I often emphasise the power of self-hypnosis and auto-suggestion. These techniques are not just tools for relaxation; they can significantly enhance your mental and emotional well-being. Understanding the benefits of learning self-hypnosis and auto-suggestion can help you take charge of your life and improve your overall quality of life. Stress Reduction and Relaxation One of the most immediate benefits of self-hypnosis is its ability to improve relaxation. In our fast-paced lives, stress can become overwhelming. Self-hypnosis allows you to relax in a focused way, helping to reduce stress and tension. This can lead to improved mental clarity and emotional stability, making it easier to handle daily challenges. Enhanced Focus and Concentration Learning self-hypnosis can improve your ability to concentrate. By training your mind to focus on specific suggestions or goals, you can enhance your productivity and attention span. This is particularly benefi...

  Healthy self-esteem is essential for personal growth and well-being. In my practice as a Hypnotherapist, I often help individuals enhance their self-worth. Recognising the signs of healthy self-esteem can empower you to cultivate a more positive self-image.  Here are some key indicators: • Self-Acceptance: Acknowledging both strengths and weaknesses without harsh self-judgment. • Setting Boundaries: Understanding personal needs and asserting them effectively. • Resilience: Bouncing back from setbacks and viewing failures as opportunities for growth. • Positive Outlook: Maintaining an optimistic perspective and focusing on solutions rather than problems. • Effective Communication: Comfortably expressing thoughts and emotions, fostering open and honest dialogue in relationships. • Mutual Respect: Valuing oneself and others, creating supportive and healthy connections. • Intrinsic Motivation: Pursuing goals and interests aligned with personal values, rather than seeking ...

Overthinking is where individuals dwell excessively on situations, problems, or potential outcomes. While occasional reflection and planning can be productive, overthinking becomes a problem when it leads to stress, indecision, and emotional exhaustion. In its extreme form, overthinking can create a mental loop where the same thoughts repeat endlessly without resolution, trapping people in a cycle of worry, doubt, and anxiety. The Effects of Overthinking When overthinking becomes chronic, it can have negative consequences on both mental and physical well-being. Here are some key effects: 1. Increased Anxiety: Overthinking amplifies worries and negative thoughts, which can fuel anxiety. Instead of focusing on solutions, people caught in the habit of overthinking tend to fixate on worst-case scenarios, creating feelings of fear and dread about the future. 2. Indecision and Paralysis: Over-analysing every possible outcome can lead to "analysis paralysis." This is the inability...

Being "triggered" refers to experiencing an intense emotional or physical reaction, often linked to past trauma, when exposed to certain stimuli. These stimuli, known as "triggers," can vary widely and may include specific sounds, smells, places, or even words that remind a person of their previous painful experiences.  When someone is triggered, their mind and body react as if they are re-experiencing that trauma, even if they are not consciously aware of the connection. This can manifest as anxiety, panic attacks, anger, or other intense emotional responses. How Triggers Develop When someone experiences trauma, their brain sometimes stores the memory of the event in an altered way, especially if it wasn't properly processed at the time. The brain remains hyper-vigilant, scanning the environment for any sign of danger that resembles a traumatic event. This leads to seemingly innocuous stimuli becoming triggers, bringing back the emotions, thoughts, and physical...

  An individual’s mental health is experienced in the present but is influenced by the past, and informs future behaviour. Analytical approaches to psychotherapy view the symptoms as an outward expression of past behaviour. The symptoms are what is happening in the present, but are reflections of past experiences and the effect they had on the individual. When we approach understanding mental health in this way, we accept that symptoms are not the root cause of the problem. They are a response to difficulties that mirror their experience. It Works For Both Positive And Negative Causes and Effects The person who experienced disrupted caregiving during their early years may not have had the opportunity to learn what stable and consistent care/love looks and feels like. In later life, they may find it difficult to form long-lasting and meaningful relationships or develop anxiety in social settings. These symptoms are a reaction to those early years. Alternatively, imagine if a child'...

  What Is Meant By The Term Psychological Resilience? There are many definitions of reliance, but we could settle for the ability to be able to cope, adapt, recover and learn from life’s challenges. Coping usually refers to being able to ‘sit with’ unpleasantness/distress with the knowledge that you can weather that storm and things will improve. This particular interpretation and response to difficult circumstances makes us less likely to become overwhelmed. Adapting to stresses is a helpful aspect of resilience. It refers to altering your behaviour (and interpretation of events) about the demands of the circumstances. A lack of resilience leads us to respond in the same way: “Because that’s what I always do”. Linked to this is the ability to learn from events which of course informs how you adapt to future stressful experiences. That knowledge will also strengthen your ability to cope with further unpleasantness. Once all these elements are in play, your ability to recover from s...